Setting our expectations low…

Author: Donna  |  Category: Family

…worked!! I was hoping for just a decent picture. I was even willing to accept that they all wouldn’t be looking at the camera at the same time (gasp). But, they all did SO well! Lainey was fine, she just didn’t want to sit still too long and was quite shy with smiles. We’ll hope for smiles next time. The pic above looks a little skewed because these are the un-cropped proofs. Here are the individuals…

 

This is my favorite pose of Lainey. Since it was her first professional portraits, we got a few extra poses of her. Here is another…

We got this outfit for her in China. Notice the right foot, with the shadow underneath? That’s because as soon as I placed her on the floor, she tried to walk away. Kudos to the photographer for catching a good picture in motion! And, yes, her tongue is out in both of the above pictures. It’s out more than it’s in, so these pictures show the true her ;)

Quick update: Lainey can now sign more, milk, all done, water, and night-night. She understands to wave when we say bye-bye, gives kisses on command (usually), loves to wash her own hair, and tried to kiss Jack full on the face (which, Jack was more than happy to accept). She’s learned how to pray now, too. At the table, we all join hands to pray and she’s learned this quickly. She grins a big grin, grabs my hand and Abbey’s, and bows her head.

Her eating habits have changed a lot since we first “met” her. She initially ate like there might not be another meal coming later…which, I have to sadly assume was because she knew what it felt like to be hungry. She accepted anything and everything and ate EVERY crumb on her plate, on her bib, on the table, etc. Now, she’s becoming more choosy…she eats her favorite on the plate first, then moves on to the other items. She no longer eats in a frenzy, seeming afraid that it might go away before she’s done. It’s a much more normal pace. She also used to cry / throw a fit whenever the food was taken away, regardless of how much she ate (we KNEW she had to be full!). She now knows that there will be another meal coming. I sound like Scarlett O’Hara, but…she’ll never go hungry again. She also knows it’s okay to leave a crumb or two…and she doesn’t panic when food hits the floor anymore. Jack is elated when THAT happens.

That’s it for now…stay tuned for pictures from the boys baseball game today!

10 Responses to “Setting our expectations low…”

  1. trclark294 Says:

    Awesome pictures!! Lainey is so cute (the rest are as well!!) I can’t get over how much Abbey looks like her mama!!

  2. EliseLiptack Says:

    Great pictures!!! Love the little tongue coming out of Lainey’s mouth….too cute!!!!

  3. fourgrands Says:

    The pictures are WONDERFUL!!! Can’t wait to get some…I really LOVE them!!! I can’t imagine how excited you were when they all did soooo good!! How beautiful and handsome the kids look…makes me so proud I could cry!!

    Lainey is doing go WELL!! That is so cute when she takes your hand and grins and bows her head to pray! I’m telling you, she’s lucky to be in the Clark family AND the Clark family is mighty lucky to have her…of course you guys already know that!! And the updates on Jack and Lainey just keep getting better..they make me laugh…a smooch right on the face!! Love you guys!! Mom

  4. specialk4b Says:

    Gorgeous pictures! What an adorable family. Glad to hear Lainey is adjusting so well.

  5. Janet T. Says:

    Donna, those pictures are AMAZING! WOW! I guess the next time I go, I should have low expectations too! If I could get THOSE results!!!!!!!!

  6. GramStegall Says:

    How God has blessed me with such beautiful/handsome grandkids is wonderful !!! I can’t wait to get my pictures, too. The kids are growing so much now and Abbey and Marley are so pretty and Ethan and Payton are becoming “guys” instead of little boys. What is great is that they are beautiful “inside out.”

    Loved Lainey in both her pics, especially the little Chinese outfit. She is going to grow out of that before you know it. My Mom used to always stick her tongue out when she was working on something. I know MeMe is looking down and smiling at Lainey. You have got to get a picture of Lainey trying to smooch Jack.

    Your parents are right. Lainey is blessed to be a part of your family and we are all blessed to have her. Learning to pray is something we all take for granted at times, but hearing that Lainey is learning to pray makes me realize just how important God is going to be in her life (because of you and Randy and your faith).

    I am so thankful that Lainey is learning that she will always have food and won’t go hungry. It makes me want to cry to think that she ever had to go hungry before. You all will make sure she has not only the food she needs, but the care, concern, fun, happiness, education, a home and love. I thank God for my son and for you.

  7. Melinda Says:

    What wonderful pictures! It must warm your heart to have a picture of all 5 of your kids together!

  8. jessica Says:

    What a good looking family! I love the pictures Donna!

    Jessica

  9. Lisa Says:

    Donna,

    Your family is soooo beautiful! All of the pictures turned out wonderful. I love how you keep us undated on your very special family.

  10. margaret Says:

    Donna,

    I love the pictures. They came out beautiful. Some of my favorite ones of Lily are the first ones we ever had made. I love that Lainey’s tongue is out in the two individual pics. Lily did the same thing when she was in a new situation or really focusing on something.

    I was happy to hear that her feeding routine has normalized. It is upseting to thing that they may not have enough to feed all of the babies. I wonder how Becky’s Cassie will respond and our Graeme. I am so happy to hear how well she is doing.

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