Like A Glove

Author: Donna  |  Category: Family

Payton loves his little sis! (and vice versa)

We are asked all the time how Lainey is doing with her adjustment to her new life with us…the easy answer is the title above. She fits perfectly. That doesn’t mean things are GOING pefectly. Afterall, she’s a toddler and it’s been a while since we’ve had a toddler!

Marles and little Miss L

She fights sleep, but sleeps great once she’s snoozing. In fact, she’s now (as of last night) going to bed in her own room and crib. She was already taking her naps there, and doing great. She’s slept through the night, not a peep, for 5 nights in our room, so we decided to make the switch for bedtime last night. She slept like a champ, waking up around 7:30.

Abbey and her friend Kendall joined us all on a walk

She has a temper. Have I mentioned that? So, we’re making “adjustments” there. :) Overall, we’re over the moon blessed and happy. She’s our girl.

Wonder what a leaf tastes like?

This past week was full of medical appointments for Lainey. She had bloodwork done on Tuesday…they had to fill FIVE vials of blood. Poor girl, she was none too happy but stayed still while I and another nurse held her other arm still. We also had to do “diaper” samples…both kinds…that was weird. The GREAT news is all the bloodwork testing came back normal. We were so thankful.

A bit of not so great news is her TB skin test came back positive. After doing a bit of research, we’ve found that although TB is basically non-existent in the US, it’s still pretty rampant in China. Having a Chinese adopted child test positive for TB is actually quite common, and some say it’s because of a certain BCG vaccination that they receive (that children in the US do not). However, she was sent for a chest x-ray on Tuesday and has an appointment with a specialist next Wednesday. Lainey is showing no signs of active TB, and most likely has a non-contagious, dormant form. But, because this could become active at any point in her life, she will begin a daily antibiotic treatment that will last 9 months. Yep, that long. For more information on this, go to this article: http://www.adoptivefamilies.com/articles.php?aid=1011

Big bro EJ, getting some good air!

More changes for Lainey…she’s becoming interested in Jack! She still has her little cry/whine that lasts about 2 seconds (which means, hey that dog is still here and I’m protesting…), BUT she’s now reaching out for him, has petted him a few times, and doesn’t mind him being closer to her. She’s making HUGE progress, we were astounded because it basically all changed in a day. Yesterday, Randy spent some time with her, looking at pictures of Jack, and I think it really helped. We’re all relieved…especially Jack, who had taken to leaving the room when he heard her whining!

See what she’s doing here? Pulling the velcro to take off her shoes. When she’s in the careseat, she immediately pulls off her shoes and socks, and throws them down. She takes after her Dad. Barefeet is the way to go. Bet she never had that chance in the orphanage. Life is good!

8 Responses to “Like A Glove”

  1. GramStegall Says:

    Lainey’s Gram doesn’t like shoes either !! Glad you posted an update and some beautiful pictures. Lainey adjusted quickly to her own room and bed. That is great. Glad Lainey is beginning to like Jack. (now maybe I won’t have to “farm” Panda out when you come here.)

    “Adoptive parents and adoption agency workers should be tested six months after they travel to an at-risk country” Does this mean you and Randy will need to be tested in the 6 months time frame? Lainey hasn’t shown any of the signs of active TB so that is good. Did you all know about this possibility before the testing?

    Keep posting as I look forward to every picture and update. Love to all.

  2. amyschristopher Says:

    How very interesting about the TB. Glad you shared this with us!

    Also, glad she did well everything came back ok!

  3. fourgrands Says:

    Yes, Lainey, “Life is Good” in the Clark household and you’re a very lucky little girl to be a part of it!! Abbey & Kendall…good looking picture of you both walking Lainey!! And how adorable are the ones of Payton & Marley with her! Hope everything goes well with the TB situation. I for one am very relieved that there is an antibiotic that she can take even tho it’s for 9 months…wow, that’s a long time! Ethan, looks like you’re sailing in the wind in that picture! Oh, and the shoes…in my toddler class of 12, I would say that about 4 or 5 of them do the same thing…pull the velcro, take off the shoes and then the socks…and then another toddler walks around holding them!! Way to go, Jack…looks like they’re not gonna throw you out afterall!! Love to all, Mom

  4. specialk4b Says:

    I’m so glad to hear that you’re continuing to gel as a family. Our little one still will rarely take his shoes off. Life with a toddler is fun! Miss ya!

  5. Derek and Julie Says:

    Thanks for the update! …We’re always checking =). We love the pictures. So glad Lainey is fitting in so well. She was chosen by God for you! We are so happy for you all!

  6. Janet T. Says:

    I’m loving all the pictures and the updates!!! I’m also glad to hear how well Lainey is fitting in….I’m getting scared about “the toddler stage”….LOL! Actually, I’m looking forward to it. Thanks for the info you sent me, you’re a dear!

  7. GramStegall Says:

    Below is what you posted one year ago on March 14th. The excitement and Lainey were well worth the wait !!!

    As it shows on our counter at the very bottom of this page, it’s been 1 year since we began this journey. Specifically, since our agency accepted the Clark family as an adoptive family to be! We’re very excited about what this next year will bring…Lainey!

  8. jessica Says:

    Great pictures! Lainey certainly does fit in with your family! What a blessing and I am so happy for you guys. You are proof that it does really happen. God is GREAT!

    Jessica

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