Cribs and Fed Ex

Author: Donna  |  Category: Adoption

I got this picture from a family who adopted their daughter from the Bengbu orphanage, and they made a trip back to the orphanage last June. She shared this picture with me. This was taken in the old orphanage, a new one was built in August 2007. We have no idea if Lainey is one of these babies, but I can at least see what her sleeping situation might have been. She would have been just shy of one year old at the time this pic was taken.

See the nice Fed Ex man, posing for a picture while holding our daughter’s paperwork?? This may seem weird (yep, you’re probably thinking we’ve lost it by now), but this is a pretty common thing in the adoption community! When your referral information, the precious paperwork about your new little one, is delivered to your home you MUST snap a picture of the man responsible for delivering said information!

We almost missed the picture (gasp). The boys had a baseball game yesterday around 1pm, so we had to leave the house before the Fed Ex truck showed. As we rounded the corner, THERE HE WAS! Driving right toward our house! “Randy, turn around!!!” So, he did and we got back to the house just as he was walking up our driveway. I grabbed the camera (we had it for the game), jumped out of the truck, and walked up to the unsuspecting man. I had to wait for him to get off his cell phone and then quickly asked if I could take his picture, and explained that he was holding the information for our new adopted daughter. He looked at me as if I’d spoken Mandarin (which, I only know a couple words of that so far…). I actually had to explain this twice, before he “got it” and stood there for the picture.

So, there you have it. One China adoption rite-of-passage checked off the to-do list.

3 Responses to “Cribs and Fed Ex”

  1. Janet T. Says:

    Oh, that will TOTALLY be me, girl! Except I’ll be crying, babbling, and holding a camera and the poor Fed Ex man will probably back sloooowly away and then race to his truck before the “crazy lady” does something even crazier….LOL!

  2. Askews Says:

    That cracks me up, Donna! I think my husband would DIE if I made the fed-ex man pose for a picture… He is always telling me to put my camera down or shakes his head whenever I take the camera out… Good for you for getting that picture! Sometimes you just have to swallow your pride for the sake of memories :)

  3. fourgrands Says:

    Those poor babies are actually sleeping on cardboard! Lainey will have a pretty colorful snuggly warm crib to sleep in soon, how wonderful! OK, Donna, sounds like you’re getting a lot like ME with the camera!! Ha! It’s all for the “memories” album and Lainey will appreciate it in years to come!! He looks like a pretty nice guy, anyway, to pose for the camera! Love, Mom

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