D-man

Author: donna  |  Category: Dylan

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Seems to be a nickname that’s sticking…

Dylan went to the pediatrician yesterday and did wonderfully – very cooperative, no tears. Course, there’s been no ouchies yet.

He weighs 26.15 pounds (2nd percentile) and is 36 inches tall (3rd percentile). Yep, he’s small, but proportionate, so all is good. He’s wearing 24mo/2T shirts and 24mo pants. 18mo pants fit better, except they’re usually too short. Thank goodness for pants with the elastic/button things on the inside of the waist!

We discussed shots, and I expressed my interest in getting as many titers as possible, to avoid unnecessary shots. She contacted the disease control center and got specifics on how this can best be accomplished. Next Monday, he’ll have those titers run, have a repeat TB test, and I’ll bring in the stool for cultures. So, there may be tears on Monday!

I’ve been keeping a list on Dylan since China, so I thought I’d share a few things here that we’ve learned so far.

Despite his leg difference, NOTHING stops him. He climbs anywhere and everywhere and scoots across the floor faster than I can keep up. He loves his little leg, and delights in showing it to anyone. Makes me sad to think he has to lose it – praying we can explain it to him somehow.

He began giving us unsolicited kisses and calling us mama/baba on day 2.  He loves to kiss! 

He understood “ball” by day 4.  He says “nyow nyow” to ask to go potty, and is beginning to understand some English already.  He understands “more” and “all done”.  As of today, he’s responding to the name Dylan most of the time (we’re calling him Dylan YuHai and will drop YuHai eventually). He says “didden oo di” for Dylan YuHai.

Dylan seems very mature for his age…he eats neatly with a spoon or fork (in fact, he hates picking up food with his hands – doesn’t like his hands dirty).  Today, we were playing with play dough and I handed him the plastic scissors.  He held them just right and began cutting…I wonder if he’d used scissors before?  He plays creatively (trying all sorts of arrangements with his stacking cups) and has a long attention span for activities. 

His favorite food was bread in China; he’s not as fond of it anymore.  Like I’ve said, he will hold food in his mouth and takes forever to swallow sometimes.  But, it’s decreased a lot in the last few days, he has needed less encouragement to eat,  and he seems  more willing to try new foods. 

Bedtime has gotten easier lately, now that we have more of a routine that slowly gets him used to the idea.  And, once he’s asleep, he’s a deep – though very restless – sleeper.  He kicks, spins, turns sideways (his favorite way to sleep) all night long.  Once he’s in his own bed, it’s a good thing his bed has rails all the way around! 

Dylan loves to throw things away and will point out trash he finds.  Likes to shut doors, too.  Hoping these traits rub off on the big kids! 

He doesn’t like to go barefoot or even sockfoot.  Shoe on at all times.  And, even though he has 4 shoes, he always chooses the squeaky shoe we got him in China. 

 

I feel like I’m so behind in the blog! Today is my birthday – I’m officially smack in the middle of my 40’s. I’d prefer to avoid typing the actual number. Ouch. And, we finally got a Christmas tree in the house as of last night. We’ll decorate this weekend. We’re ridiculously behind in Christmas shopping and we have 6 children hoping we catch up quickly. Well, at least 5 children – Dylan is happily oblivious to it all. Randy suggested we just postpone Christmas for a week, but none of the kids liked the idea. Weird, huh? I promise to try to post more pics soon!!

6 Responses to “D-man”

  1. idratherread Says:

    Happy Birthday Mrs. Clark!!! So happy to hear about the improvements. :)

  2. GramStegall Says:

    I have been checking several times a day as I just wanted to see more pictures and get more information about Dylan and how he is doing with his new family. It seems that he is adjusting very good and is really smart. I know that it may be hard at first for Dylan to understand “why” he has to lose his little leg, but just remember that with a prosthesis, he will be walking and riding bikes, wakeboarding and running (and not just scooting).

    Maybe while Dylan is teaching his siblings how to close doors, etc. and pick up trash, he could share some of his longer attention span with a couple of them (Randy included. LOL) Then Dylan can come here and teach Paul, too.

    I am sure whatever Christmas you have ready will be enough for the kids. Let them all help you get ready and you may have to just let a few things “slide” this year like I am having to do. (just doesn’t look like the outside will get decorated this year) Tomorrow… I WILL get gifts wrapped !!!!

    As for it being your “35th” birthday, you have more energy than most people your age do. And you aren’t a bit bigger than you were the first time I met you. Did Dylan understand about your having a birthday?

    Thanks for taking time to post and to put a new picture for me to look at. I love reading about Dylan, his siblings and seeing pictures of him and them.

  3. kpfarf@nc.rr.com Says:

    Happy Birthday Donna! I didn’t realize you were a December birthday as well (although at some point over the years I’m sure we discussed it). Mine was the 8th so I’m officially 2yrs. and 9days older than you are. ha ha

    Glad to hear some things are improving with Dylan. Don’t apologize for being behind in blogging–did you see the last time I posted? Turns out I got sick shortly after my birthday so everything that was supposed to happen last weekend had to be postponed to this weekend–including Nadia’s b-day party (her b-day is the 7th). So, I’m woefully behind in shopping as well and I’m thinking we may celebrate the Orthodox Ukrainian Christmas which is January 7th! Care to join us in this new tradition??? ha ha

    Please e-mail me your contact info when you get a chance. kpfarf@nc.rr.com Thanks!

  4. fourgrands Says:

    New info on our little guy…love it!! Ummm, we got him some outfits…some size 2 & some size 3. He can grow into them, I figured getting bigger is better than too small. Awww, I don’t want to think of him having tears tomorrow…hope he’ll do good! You’re right..he IS fast! I loved the way he went under Payton & Ethan’s legs like going under a bridge. He loved that ane he and his brothers were giggling!! Kisses..hey,I’ll take them anytime he wants to give me some..:) I love how he calls his name “didden oo di” that’s adorable!! It’s great that he’s cutting with scissors. I know of some kids at BB who are 4 who can’t cut with scissors! Doesn’t like to go barefoot…oh no, Payton!! How are you going to be able to get along with your little bro when he doesn’t like to go barefoot??!!

    Can’t wait till Christmas Eve to spend 2 days with you guys and help Dylan get to know his maternal Granma and Granpa!!! Don’t worry about getting it all done…we’ll talk soon and decide what we’ll cook, etc. Oh, I wrapped for 2 days and am caught up, and now I really must go bake some sugar cookies after I pay a few bills…oh yes, even tho it’s Christmas, the bills STILL have to be paid…LOL Love ya!!

  5. Anne Says:

    Ok, I am talking in “cute child or doggie talk”- OH HIM IS DA CUTEST THING I EVER DID SEE, him is just a pecious. (precious) I want to hug him and hear him talk and see his wittle weg. (little leg) have you shown a picture of it yet? (That sounds obscene, and I surely don’t mean it that way but we are all really wondering what it IS!) We woves u Dywan!!!!

  6. Anne Says:

    Oh, a child of yours that wears shoes -AUNTIE ANNE IS SOOOO HAPPY. Since my two hate shoes too and I LOVE SHOES. Never go without them myself, Dylan- you are in good company sweetie!!!! Present for the “wittles” coming soon. (littles)

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